"Don...I don't know where the money goes."

I've heard some version of that many times from Google employees.

Not new hires.

Not people struggling to get by.

I'm talking about Directors, Staff Engineers, Engineering Managers, and other high performers earning several hundred thousand dollars a year- sometimes considerably more.

My response is almost always the same.

Then that's priority number one. We need to know your numbers.

Not because you're doing something wrong.

Because you can't improve what you can't see.

Success Changes How You Spend

One of the unexpected side effects of a high income is that you gradually stop looking at prices.

Not because you're reckless.

Because you've earned the ability not to.

You go to the grocery store and don't study every receipt.

You order dinner because everyone had a long day.

You book the flight that's more convenient instead of the cheapest one.

You replace something instead of spending an hour trying to repair it.

None of those decisions are unreasonable.

In fact, many of them make perfect sense.

The challenge is that, over time, the friction disappears.

Your credit card gets paid automatically.

Your RSUs vest.

Life gets busy.

Eventually, spending becomes something happening in the background rather than something you're intentionally observing.

Don't Mistake That for Luxury

This is where I think many high earners unintentionally miss an opportunity.

Don't mistake the ability to stop looking at prices for luxury.

Treat it as opportunity.

Like any well-run business, your household should know its numbers.

• Revenue.
• Expenses.
• Margin.

Because when you know your margin, you know what can be reinvested.

That's how wealth is built.

Not simply by earning more.

But by intentionally protecting the gap between what comes in and what goes out.

Where the Money Usually Goes

When we review spending together, it's almost never one dramatic purchase.

It's discretionary spending that quietly accumulates.

• Travel.
• Dining out.
• Food delivery after long workdays.
• Online purchases made while decompressing after a demanding week.

Parents of young children understand this immediately.

Time becomes your scarcest resource.

Sometimes you're not paying for the meal.

You're paying to get an hour of your evening back.

That's a completely rational decision.

The problem isn't making those choices.

The problem is making hundreds of them without realizing what they add up to.

The Wealthiest Googlers I've Worked With Share One Habit

Over the years, I've worked with some Google employees whose concentrated stock positions exceeded $2 million and whose total net worth was well beyond $5 million- all while still in their 40s.

What separates many of them isn't that they earn more.

It's how they think.

One Google L7 shared a piece of advice with me years ago that I've never forgotten.

"Live within, or better yet, below your means."

Simple.

Not glamorous.

But remarkably effective.

The people who build lasting wealth aren't usually trying to look wealthy.

They're quietly protecting the difference between what they earn and what they spend.

That difference compounds year after year.

The Goal Isn't Spending Less

This is where I think budgeting gets misunderstood.

The purpose isn't to eliminate every convenience.

It's not to feel guilty every time you order takeout.

And it's certainly not to stop enjoying the rewards of your hard work.

The goal is awareness.

Once you know where your money actually goes, you get to decide whether it still reflects your priorities.

Some expenses absolutely will.

Others won't.

That's not failure.

That's useful information.

An Honest Starting Point

If you're a Google employee earning a great income but still wondering where the money goes, I'd encourage you to start with one simple exercise.

Know your numbers.

Not because you need to spend less.

Because you deserve to know whether your money is building the life you actually want—or simply disappearing into the background of a busy life.

I've found that the most successful financial plans rarely begin with a brilliant investment idea.

They begin with something much simpler.

An honest look at the numbers.

Continue Learning

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Together, these articles explore how successful technology professionals can build wealth intentionally while balancing equity compensation, taxes, and long-term financial independence.

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If you're a Google employee wondering whether your spending, RSUs, taxes, and long-term financial plan are all working together, I'd be happy to help.

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